Xwayland OR menus may disappear if their parent view is deactivated. The
heuristic and ICCCM input model implemented prior, used to determine whether an
OR surface may take focus, does not cover all menus, so retaining parent view
activation works as a catch-all solution for handling unwanted OR menu focus.
Some popup menus are not covered by the `overrideRedirectWantsFocus()`
heuristic (e.g. in IntelliJ IDEA), so before focusing an OR window,
its input model should also be checked to ensure that it is able to
take input focus. This appears to fix the popup menus in IntelliJ IDEA,
which would otherwise disappear immediately due to unwanted focus.
Adding the set_override_redirect listener on creation and removing it
on destruction was missed when implementing override redirect state
change handling.
